i love cultivating leadership from the inside out, uplifting each person with honor and dignity. with empathy and care, i help individuals transform their greatest wounds into their grandest strengths, enabling them to lead their lives with purpose and clarity. through energy and inspiration, i facilitate teams, organizations and individuals in creating a sense of safety and belonging by fostering a deeper understanding and meaninful connection of how our being influences our doing.
one of my greatest life accomplishments has been soul shoppe, an organization i co-founded in 2001. focused on empathy building within educational communities, it teaches strategies for social-emotional awareness, conflict resolution, and bullying prevention. i’ve also had the honor of co-running a year of care, a sacred circle for women of color. a space where women gather to rest, reflect, and support each other’s healing and growth. from this work, i’ve learned what’s needed to successfully lead teams, and what people need to learn, thrive and grow.
i am a proud american-born filipina, raised in san francisco, ca. as for most of us, my life and work is shaped by my lived experiences, as well as my ancestral connections. as a child I always had a deep sense of empathy for those around me, even when things were painful or harmful. i’m grateful for my lifelong journey of growth and transformation that continues to inform me, my leadership and what i offer the world.
what matters to me…
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v!’s facilitation is rooted in respect for every individual's dignity. she creates a strong sense of belonging within teams, ensuring everyone feels valued and heard. her approach fosters an environment of freedom where participants can express themselves fully and authentically.
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what you see is what you get - vicki! brings her true self to every group and project, inspiring brave communication and expression in others. this transparency sets a trusting tone for all her sessions, and gives permission for all participants to also value and honor their own authenticity, as well as others.
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vicki! adeptly navigates conversations, especially when tensions rise. if participants become defensive or closed off, she skillfully reopens the dialogue, ensuring continuous, productive communication.
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vicki! excels at creating environments where participants feel safe to explore their deepest emotions and thoughts. her sessions encourage openness and vulnerability, crucial for genuine growth and connection.
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expect to be pushed beyond your comfort zone. vicki! is skilled at asking the hard questions that facilitate real change and clarity about intended outcomes.
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vicki! keeps things engaging and interactive, fostering a sense of play and teamwork. from revealing unspoken behaviors to deep trust-building exercises, v!’s activities are designed to illuminate and transform.
